Thursday, December 6, 2012

What do you do?

What do you do if you rushed out of class for a toilet break and during your return you are stopped by a guy who starts making friendly conversations with you?

Do you automatically assume that he is interested in you?

Or would you brush that thought aside and just assume that he is trying to make friends?

What if you have already told him that you need to go back to class fast, but he still delays you because he has some unfinished business?

What if he doesn’t actually tell you what business he has yet to complete but automatically you know that he really just wants to get your number?

What if YOU ALREADY HAVE A BOYFRIEND AND YOU KNOW THAT THIS GUY’S INTENTION IS NOT JUST A SIMPLE FRIENDLY ONE?

What do you do?

And oh, what if after you manage to convince him that you have a class to return to, he says to you that He Will Be Waiting Outside For You???????????????????????????

How do you react to something like that?

And I am not trying to boast but that happened to me the other day in the library.

True enough, when I filed out of class after that, he was waiting for me!

I pretended to be in a very busy conversation with Ee Vonne and at the same time, pressing my phone too, but he was relentless!

He followed both of us across the library, to the lift, INSIDE the lift, down to the entrance and even followed us all the way to KPS which was across the street from the library!!!

He kept asking me for my number, claiming that he was interested in me, and I kept saying that I don’t give my number to people I don’t know.

I mean, you would say that I could have just mentioned that I already have a boyfriend. But how presumptuous would I sound if I said something like that to his face?

I gave him the BOD because what if he only wanted to be friends? What if he just wanted me to help him get a letter from the UM administration because he couldn’t speak BM? What if? What if? What if?

So I couldn’t say that. I just said that I only give my number to my close friends. And he asked if he could be one of my close friends wtf.

I told him not now obviously and just to get him to leave me I said I would give him my email address and he can add my on Facebook.

So I gave him my email (fake one of course) and he said thanks and went over to Ee Vonne and apologised to her for monopolising my time.

Then I felt a little bit guilty because he was being really polite to apologise to Ee Vonne but I kept fearing that if I became to friendly he might get the wrong message!!!

I forced myself to be cool and after that he left. I texted my boyfriend to tell him about this and he told, no DEMANDED that I just ignore him because he said he is a guy and he knows what a guy wants.

I felt super relieved after that and had my lunch happily with Ee Vonne.

But when we headed to the bus stop to wait for Bus E, that guy suddenly appeared again!

He sat directly opposite me and Ee Vonne, so obviously he was trying to make conversations with us again.

This time, I decided I had to completely ignore him because I didn’t want to give him any false hopes! I mean, I couldn’t be entirely sure that his intention was to, you know, get to know me as more than friends, but I had to do what it takes to make him understand that I am not interested right?

So I whipped out my phone and called my boyfriend. I left the guy to talk to Ee Vonne entirely. Yes she was peeved but I had  to do it!!! lol

Luckily Ee Vonne was smart enough and told the guy straight that I was talking to my boyfriend on the phone.

And then he exclaimed, Oh! She had a boyfriend already? Then I shouldn’t…

Then he left.

And it proves that my assumption wasn’t wrong but still, I felt bad because why can’t a guy and a girl just be normal friends? Does it mean that once there will be no romantic involvement between them that they cannot be platonic friends?

But my main question is this: if this were to happen to you, how would you have reacted?

Do you think I was mean to have behaved like that?

#1 You might think that I kept using ‘that guy’ because I don’t want to reveal the identity of the guy, but the truth is, I didn’t catch his name when he mentioned it to me, or if he did, I forgot what it was. lol I was really freaked out lah!

#2 Stupid Ee Vonne told me not to be so proud of myself that a guy is interested in me because it is not because I am very pretty, but because I have a huge ass which appeals to men (because I am hou sang yong = meaning that I can give birth to many healthy babies). ==

Today I decide to be a better person.

As a student in UM, I suddenly met a lot of new people. It is like a whole new world. SO many people around me with different personalities, thoughts and mind set. And the one reaction I realise I have to this sudden invasion of people into my life is: I start to complain a lot.

When I see things that I find unpleasant, as if having a mind on its own, my mouth would start babbling complaints to my partner-in-crime, Ee Vonne.

It’s like everyday I see someone who makes me feel annoyed or irritated. I can easily list out 5 most annoying types of people I have met in my life in UM so far:

  1. Group members who will not cooperate.
  2. Girls who act cute and are only friendly to guys (hate them so much GRR).
  3. Friends who endlessly ask for your help, ignoring the fact that YOU, yourself might also have assignments to complete.
  4. People who are not seng mok, ie, I was standing by the door, holding it open for the next passing person to take on the responsibility so that I can leave that spot by the door (this huge crowd of people were streaming out the hall together), and it so happened that the next person was guy. Instead of holding it open, you know, relaying the responsibility (it’s common courtesy right!?), he just walked right on as if it was my ultimate chore to freaking hold the door open for him. URGH.
  5. People who ONLY acknowledge the presence of your friend even though you are standing right next to her and acts as if you are invisible.

 

You see, I have so many complaints. Yes, they are valid complaints, but I realised that these are things we cannot change in life.

There WILL be people like this, no matter where we go, what we do, or even during which part of our lives. Maybe when we were younger we didn’t notice these things about others, but we are adults now.

We tend to take more notice of the people around us, and really, there is nothing we can do about it.

I guess the only change we can make is by changing ourselves.

To reduce the number of people who are annoying, we must first make sure we remove ourselves from that category. And for that I have come up with 5 most commonly annoying types of people and ways to prevent being like that (represented after the – sign):

  1. People who boast to feel better about themselves. – Keep our achievements to ourselves. If we are good, it shows, there is no need to inform.
  2. People who keep asking you to help him do something when you yourself can barely finish your own assignments. And the worst type are those who CAN do their work on their own, but are too lazy and so they resort to you. – Always, always start your assignment about 5-7 days before the actual due date. It doesn’t matter if you don’t finish, as long as you start. Don’t bother others with your problems, because there is always another solution: Google & Wikipedia.
  3. People who complain about every single thing (me). – Stop freaking complaining. When you have the urge to complain just think of fluffy pink bunnies or LV handbags (for girls) and RDJ’s abs and the new Lambo Aventador (for guys, well, I guess for girls too, considering it’s RDJ’s ABS).
  4. People who only acknowledge the presence of your friend and completely ignores you, even though you’re just standing right beside said friend. – I know sometimes it’s hard to start a conversation with someone you don’t know, but just make the effort to say Hi, and introduce yourself. When you get to used to it, you will realise it’s nothing. It even makes you feel better because you’re actually being nice.
  5. People who arrive late to the bus stop (and therefore should only get into the bus LAST!!!) but unabashedly rush to the bus anyway, ignoring the fact that some other people (me) may have arrived early to secure a good spot. – Just be FAIR. I know it’s impossible to account exactly who arrived the earliest or the second earliest or so on, but if you know you have arrived late, then stand at the back. You might be giving a chance to those who arrived later than you to get into the bus first, but at least you are being fair to those who arrived earlier than you. And that is good enough. Don’t rush to the bus like a sore loser, it’s disgusting. The bus will still be there, so scared for what jek?

 

So while I am helping to make the world a better place, I am also trying to change myself.

Since I can comfortably say that I am not one of the 5 top annoying types of people, now I can move on to the next step of this strategy: which is to just IGNORE these people if I ever encounter one.

Like I said, counter your urge to complain with a thought about something else.

It really makes you feel much better. I gave an impromptu speech persuading people to not take life so seriously the other day in class, so I am going to heed my own words.

From now on, I decide to change.

I will stop complaining and stop taking life too seriously. Smile

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And I shall start the change by posting a stupid photo of me. lol

BYE!

Do you have any more annoying types of people you would like to share?

Friday, November 30, 2012

Who am I?

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The other day in class we were told to write our own sajak. Ee Vonne wrote something very interesting which made me think a lot about my life.

She wrote her entire sajak like a timeline of all the things she wanted to be back when she was young until today. And even though she had very prominent ambitions when she was young, like a scientist, and then a housewife (lol wtf) then a fashion designer, but now at age 20, funnily she has no idea what she wants to become. All the previous ambitions have died away and now she is left with no direction.

I thought that I had a clear viewpoint where I wanted my life to go, but then I realised I am quite like her leh.

I don’t know what I want to be when I grow up. So far my horizon covers TV show hosts, VJs, bloggers, etc etc and basically everything else that brings me a lot of attention lol but nothing solid. One thing I mentioned to Ee Vonne the other day is, to me, success is when people start talking about me.

I know I have a talent in talking and speaking in public. So far for all my main presentation assignments I have been the top in class. But then I doubt my skills because most of the time I get very nervous and my voice shivers. Even at times that I don’t feel scared, my voice actually shakes and it really spoils the whole thing.

What should I do?

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Enough with the emo post let’s get to the nice (photo) part. I think my looks improved leh! Open-mouthed smile Ok no I have not lost any weight even until now but I think my make up skills have improved!!! I need to buy nicer clothes though because I still think my fashion sense is one of the worst problems of my life. ==;

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Nice leh! Open-mouthed smile

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I know how Ee Vonne does it, but everything she takes a shot of me, I look super pretty one leh! Open-mouthed smile

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See!!!

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So to credit her I post a nice photo of her. (and me also of course HAHA)

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I am obsessed with All Berry Bang!!! In whatever place I am at, if they have Boost there, I CONFIRM will buy All Berry Bang! IT IS SO GOOD LAH. *__*

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Time to play…INSERT IRRELEVANT INSPIRATIONAL QUOTE HERE game!

“One day, I will prove to them that their words can’t bring me down.”

“It’s hard to forget someone who gave you so much to remember.”

“Oppa GANGNAM-STYLE!” wtf

LOL hate that type of photos.

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My handsome boyfriend! Open-mouthed smile I am trying to convince him to wear cardigans and coloured jeans because they are my favourite clothes on guys! Open-mouthed smile

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One of Ee Vonne’s many talents: braids! Fine fine I admit, she is very awesome. lol Ee Vonne if you are reading this, YOU OWE ME ONE COMPLIMENT.

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Can’t live without camwhoring!!!

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Ending this post with a gorgeous gigantic photo of me lol

PS: Isn’t it weird how I can be so emo at the start of the post and then suddenly become so happy by the end of it??! LOL!!

It’s one of my expertise leh! Can’t stay emo for long one! Too many happy things in my life!!!

PS2: AYA! Forgot to post about one incident in UM that happened to me last Wednesday!!! Ok I give preview first wtf it involves a guy chasing me!!! Will talk about it in the next post ok!

BYE!!!

Saturday, November 10, 2012

So…

I was just watching this olden days TVB drama on AOD and there was a scene where this girl who is a palace lady who serves the royal family (okay so I tried Googling the correct word but failed so if anyone knows the correct word please inform me ok!) in the palace and it is common knowledge that these palace ladies cannot have relationships with men until they are freed from the palace.

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Photo from the internet, credits to whoever it belongs to!!

There is this palace lady who has been with her lover for a long time and she accidentally got pregnant. She isn’t allowed to get married with her lover, obviously, but they are actually as good as married, aren’t they? Both of them are mature and of age, what does a simple marriage cert mean? It isn’t like they don’t want to get married, they just can’t.

But because she is a palace lady, she has to be punished for being pregnant!! At the time that the palace guards find out about her pregnancy, she is already at the gate of the palace, about to be freed.

Why can’t the people of the palace be a bit more considerate and kind hearted and just let her go? Yes, she has done a mistake, but how is that relevant anymore since at the point of time that they find out, she is actually no longer a palace lady? The only difference is she is one step away from the gate that separates the palace from the outside world.

In the end, during a struggle to escape, she is caught by the palace guards and is accidentally pushed into a wall where she then suffers a miscarriage.

I actually teared watching this scene. Because it got me wondering, supposing this happens to real people in real life? In 7 billion people, there is bound to be at least one couple who suffers the same situation right?

And then it hit closer to home and I thought about myself. Aren’t I one of them too? Yes, my circumstances are different but isn’t my situation essentially the same?

Here are the similarities:

  1. My relationship is considered a social stigma to most people in the society.
  2. Everybody is waiting for the day when my relationship will end.
  3. I can’t complain to anyone because every agrees that the best way to solve this relationship problem is to end it.
  4. My boyfriend and I are in a committed relationship and we are essentially not doing anything wrong, but people can’t seem to accept it.
  5. Our future is uncertain and in every step of the way, there are fears and risks.
  6. And so on, so on…

Have you guys ever been in a situation where you know you are not doing anything wrong but everyone around you is forcing you to “correct” it? And you can’t even complain to anyone because everyone around you wishes for you to step out from this relationship?

Who do you complain to when nobody understands you? Nobody I know has been in a situation like this.

And it especially infuriates me that those normal, blessed couples are going around fighting with each other or worse, cheating on each other.

If you don’t intend to work things out, why are you together? Why do you choose to be each others’ halves, if you plan to cheat?

Whenever my boyfriend and I aren’t on the same terms, we don’t lash it out on each other or throw insults or even raise our voice. We simply just agree to disagree. Because there is not much time in a day, so why spend those hours arguing about things that in the end, if you think about it, don’t make any significant differences?

Which situation do you prefer to be in?

A totally blessed and celebrated relationship but fighting all the time, or a relationship you both treasure so much but is deemed an impossible one amongst those whom you love like your friends and family?

I choose the former because at least we can change things.

But how do you change one’s religion?

Especially so if one is Muslim?

My boyfriend is Muslim and can I just say that even though I have every intention to marry him, I totally have zero interest in converting to Muslim?

I will never do it, even in death. So that’s my main problem. To marry him, I have to convert.

How unfair is that? Why do I have to compromise my religious beliefs (if I even had them) just to get married to the guy I love?

Our love is as sincere as any other happy couple. Why do I have to be burdened with this problem?

It is as if I am the palace lady. Only in relatively better circumstances I guess since I don’t think I will have to endure any beatings or miscarriages. But still.

Why does everyone resent my relationship? What am I doing wrong? Why do I have to enter a religion I have ZERO BELIEF in just because I want to marry someone who is unfortunate enough (in my opinion) to be born into that religion?

And because religion is such a “sensitive” issue, I cannot talk to it about anyone. I cannot complain about how unfair it is, even though evidently speaking IT IS UNFAIR RIGHT?

For all you know I might be a very religious Christian but I happen to fall madly in love with this religious Muslim. Why do I have to compromise? I have my beliefs too!

So given my situation, I have 3 choices:

  1. I convert and marry him, and suffer the wrath of my family and the possibility that they will never forgive me and/or things will never be the same between us again.
  2. I marry him without converting, and suffer the wrath of his family, and the possibility that they will never forgive us and/or things will never be the same between my boyfriend and his family again. And oh, my in-laws will also never get along with my family, like ever.
  3. I break up with him, and suffer the pain and despair of having to let go of my one true love and the possibility that I might never be able to experience true love again.
  4. Okay I know I said 3 choices but as I was writing I thought of a 4th one so I am writing it down : One of us pretends to commit suicide and then the other one chooses to migrate to another country in the pretence of wanting to get over the pain and despair of the death of his/her true love and then we reunite there, and start over without contacting anybody we have known in our lives, ever.
  5. Okay I thought of another one that sounds a little bit more likely : We both kill ourselves and hope against false hope that we will be reunited in the after death and be able to live (die?) happily ever after.

What do I do now? Which would you choose?

Oh, yes, that’s right. YOU DON’T HAVE TO.

So are you still mad at your boyfriend for not texting you for more than an hour the other day because he was a bit busy?

Priorities, people.

Some people LIKE ME have much more depressing problems which until today, still don’t seem to show signs of positivity.

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But one thing I can be sure is, baby, I will never, ever, ever give you up. I love you too much. Red heart

Sunday, October 7, 2012

Hi.

I know. It has been SO LONG since I have last updated. I lost the mood to update la ok. Because I think the last few months I looked very ugly.

But now I have regained my confidence that I am actually quite pretty so I will post photos ok.

Guys in UM seem to approach me alot so that shows I am still at some level attractive wtf

PHOTOS TIME

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I donno why when I try to smile naturally I automatically get these really big eyebags and squinty eyes. :c #chinesewoes

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That’s why shades are a good disguise lol

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Me and ayang Open-mouthed smile

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KIUT MOU!!! *____*

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We have alot of this kind of pictures because I always happen to look the best when we are in the car starting the journey lol

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Rare non-self captured photo of me lol

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This was on the way to Melaka the other time and I can’t believe it! My hair was so short!!! lol it is so long now *rubs hair against face lovingly*

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I realise 4feet9 likes to do this face alot lol

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Mini heart on my face!!! But people keep asking me why I have an extraneous mole on my face ==

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#3

Eh wait.

Ok abrupt end of post lol

Will post about UM in the next post!!!

Saturday, March 3, 2012

GOOD DAY!

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Hello!

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Wai chio photo must be blur. T.T Or is it chio because it’s blur? :philosoraptor:

I haven’t blogged a long post for so long because I’ve been really busy these days with work.

Anyway today I just want to share with you guys about my NEW BUNNY!!!!!!!!!

So the story is like this.

One fine Saturday I decided to go to Setia Alam Pasar Malam with yayang. And while we walked we came across this store that sold BUNNIES!!! OMG they were damn cute lah! T.T

So tiny, mini, fluffly……………..

I almost bought one on the spot!!! ><

You see I’ve always wanted to get a pet, like a cat, because they can interact with me and play with me, as opposed to a tortoise or a fish.

But my mum said NO NO NO to a cat because they have ticks.

I was really upset lah but then when I saw the bunny I was like WHY DIDN’T I THINK OF THIS BEFORE?!

BUNNY!

Bunnies don’t bark/make noisy noises, don’t poop/pee alot, have no ticks, won’t stink, is clean bla bla bla and it’s just the perfect pet to have at home!

So I asked my mum about and after much pleading and begging, she said OK!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

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So the next week I went back to the PS to get a bunny!!! I wanted this bunny which I held last week which was pure white with light brown eyeliner around the eyes. SO CUTE CAN DIE.

But when I got there, the person told me it was sold already. T.T MY BUNNY T.T

I was really upset lah but thankfully, around that pile of bunnies were also some really cute ones!!!

There was one which was white with a little bit of light brown and he was so small!!! And calm! I almost wanted to get him!!!

But then there was this other one which was white with grey and looked so unique!!! Both also so small and cute!

I took a very long time to decide and in the end I bought…………………………………….

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The grey and white one!!!! (as if you all don’t already know from my previous post but let’s all pretend that we forgot and act surprised ok?! OK!)

CUTE MOUUUUUUUUUUUUU T.T

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He is male and he is so adorable!!

I wanted to get a female bunny at first because all the names I had lined up were female names but all the females weren’t so cute. :c

In the end I decided to get one that was damn cute and I loved instead of a girl which I didn’t like.

And I got him!!!

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He is so cute and clean! Whenever I put him on the bed he will hop onto my laptop and sit there quietly!!! So adorable!!!

I think he likes the heat hihi

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And then after a few minutes he will become like this == too comfortable.

One amazing thing is, he fully potty-trained himself!!!

I did not do any training for him because I thought I’d do that when he was abit older (he was about 1 month old when I got him) but now I don’t have to worry!

One day I got him and put him on my bed and as usual he jumped onto my laptop and sat there.

So when I wanted to sleep already, I carried him and put him into his basket and he immediately peed and pooped!!

It was as if he was waiting to pee and poop but didn’t want to do it on my laptop and only did it in his basket!! WAI SO CUTE ONE T.T

Now I don’t have to worry about putting him everywhere already because he will only pee and poop in his basket!!!

Love him so much!!! T.T

Another amazing thing is I realised he liked to poop and pee on stuff ie his rabbit pellets (which he doesn’t eat at all ==) and timothy hay (which he likes) so one day smarty me decided to put the hay in a bowl and true enough he only peed and pooped in that bowl!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! And the rest of his basket remained clean!!! SO CLEVER T.T

Now I don’t have to change the newspapers so often, only the bowl! EEEEEEEEE

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I saw that Xiaxue fed roses to her bunny so when my mum went to buy flowers, I asked her to buy one stalk of rose for me!

It was a really pretty pink rose and only cost RM1.30 wtf SO CHEAP compared to those florists!!!

At first when I fed it to Kisses he diao geh dowan to eat but soon he ate one whole petal!!!

I tried to give him another petal but he refused. Maybe he was not hungry.

I gave him a leaf but he didn’t want it at all. ==

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At night before going to bed, I plucked the whole rose and put them all in his basket so that he could eat it over the night. I looked so pretty!!! :3

And I also stocked up on cabbages for him because he doesn’t like pellets and I was scared that he would get hungry at night.

But the next day when I woke up, all the rose petals were gone! And the ALL the cabages was gone too. == lol

I know too much cabbage is not good for bunnies (causes gas) but that was the only vege I had that day but now I’ve bought spinach which is really good for bunnies so don’t worry!

I’ve had him for a week now (today is Saturday) and I’ve noticed that he has grown so much @@

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I took this photo on Thursday and already he is so big!!! O.O

Compared to the previous laptop photo!!! My gosh………..

In short, I really love him very much! When he sits with/on me, he just lies quietly while I stroke his mini furry head. :3

And when I stop to reply a text or type in my laptop, he looks up and licks me frantically to urge me to continue stroking him and when I do he stops and lies back down. T.T

WAI SO CUTE ONE. He is so guai even my mum loves him (she doesn’t really like animals).

Even yayang loves him. :3

My round little bunny, Kisses. Red heart

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Also another thing, today, I realised Kisses’s fur has grown so much already and it’s beginning to get into his eyes and when he poops, the poop gets stuck in his fur.

I decided he needed a trim.

So smarty me thinking I am very awesome went and snipped his fur and now HE LOOKS SO FUGLY T.T

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What have I done?????????????????????????????????????????????????? T.T

(sorry Kisses T.T)

PS : But bunny fur will grow very fast one right? Right? RIGHT???? T.T

Tuesday, February 28, 2012

I sooooooooooooooooooooooo want to blog…………..

But I have no time!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

So here is my cute little Kisses for you guys to coo over!!!

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OK BYE BYE!

Tuesday, February 21, 2012

WORK!

Hello! Tody was my first day of work and it was great!

My colleagues are all very friendly and helpful and working with them is cool because they aren’t those super cheerful and chatty type (which I can’t help but resent) but yet they are also not those quiet type who don’t talk (to me) at all (I can’t stand people who ignore the people around them either). So working with them is fun!

The work I do is quite simple in essence, but it’s actually a very tedious affair. Basically what I have to do is just remove documents from folders, remove the binders and staples, rearrange them accordingly, remove the unwanted documents, then put them back nicely and neatly in the folders and put the folders back in the box.

Then, another team will scan those documents piece by piece into the PC.

You know how the banking system works? When you want to buy property or appeal for loan? They have these bunch of documents right? Terms and conditions, declaration of acceptance, facilities agreement, lawyers letter bla bla blaaaaaa…which all have to be present as proof before your appeal is approved, right? So what we do now in the office is scanning everything into the PC and then upload all the contents into an online server which can be reached anywhere, anytime!

No more need for black and white paper proof anymore which is super time-consuming and easily misplaced/torn and not easily accessible!

So in short, we are doing all the manual belakang tirai work. What? You think automatically your data and info can be found online ah? Someone has to do it manually ok. And apparently, my office colleagues are those ‘someones’.

But all in all, my job is quite interesting because I feel like I am learning so much about banking and loan stuff and it’s good because one day in my life I will have to buy my own property too right? So at least I already know how everything kind of works.

After reading about what I do at work, don’t think that it’s an easy peasy job ok. Those documents, with the formal language they use, mixed up papers, different letter layout, loans, charge, title, S & P agreement, guarantee, letter of undertakings, they are super super confusing! That’s why it takes some time to digest everything thoroughly before you can proceed to filing the documents up.

And there’s also the pressure of having to be very careful not to make any mistakes.

But of course I will try to work hard lah and hit higher numbers to reach the daily target so that I can help out more and at the same time garner more trust and compliments…hehehe. Open-mouthed smile

Ok! That’s all about my job! Now I wanna talk about food!

I really don’t like making food for my mum. Not because I am stingy or selfish or whatever, it’s because she always thinks that her food is better and everyone should cook it her way whether or not they like it.

She just kenot accept change. Everytime I cook something new, in a way that I have learned in AFC, she never fails to comment about what apparent mistake I am doing with my food. When in reality that food is not something that she has cooked before.

And I donno what is her logic or proof. There was once my boyfriend and I fried these chicken strips which were very crunchy and delicious. The secret to that is to dip the chicken strips first in batter and then coat another layer of dry plain flour before deep frying it. It will turn out super delicious and crunchy!

So my mum, before knowing how we had cooked the chicken, tried it and expressed how delicious and crunchy it was. So I revealed to her the way I did it and suddenly she changed her mind and said that coating it with another layer of flour was wrong and nobody fried chicken like that.

What the…

But she continued to eat the chicken with relish but still standing true to her opinion that our way was wrong. How illogical is that?!

I just don’t understand the way her mind thinks.

And whenever I make salad or sandwiches, I like to put jumble of ingredients in which I like. But she, just because she never uses any other ingredients besides tuna and egg mayo, always says that my sandwiches/salad are wrong and won’t taste nice.

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Like that also can one meh? I want to put what in my food then let me be lah. There is no wrong or right in food if the food in the end turns out delicious and not unhealthy, right?!

So what is she going on about?! Why can’t she just leave my food alone if she doesn’t like it?

And the worst thing is, she ENJOYS my food but STILL continues to give comments/(unconstructive) suggestions about it!!!

Zzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzz

Thus ends my rant about my mum.

Here’s a photo of our crunchy and delicious chicken. DOES IT LOOK GOOD OR WHAT. My mum is weird.

Ok I am super tired and need to go sleep now. Work tomorrow at 9am!

BYE BYE!

PS : I never wear/own formal clothes and it is becoming more and more stressful each day to find an outfit that is fit for my office. ==