And of course, that interesting thing is:
SEX. Oh Vendrick very excited lol
So you see, what are my stands on sex? To me it's just another basic process of life. I don't think age groups can define whether or not you are old enough/should have sex because after all, it is still a very simple process and everybody knows how to do it anyway.
Don't come bull me say you don't watch porn la k. I am over that. In my life I have got this theory: All boys have watched porn before and enjoy it. Those who no longer enjoy porn are usually already attached to a girlfriend who also enjoys sex as much, and that is why when you can get on-spot treatment, what for want to rely on on-screen stuff some more?
Girls you ask? SAME. And the only time these attached sexual boys and girls resort to porn is when their other halves are busy at the moment/on-holiday bla bla bla.
And for those other outcasts who say that they do not enjoy porn, then I don't know what is wrong with you.
Okay la, let put it this way: I also don't enjoy porn very much (I watched before in some scandalous sent-around tapes of some politician ahem, and also when I went to Taiwan, there were some special channels on their TV dedicated to porn so I also watched before from there. Come on la you want to say that I'm disgusting, at least I admit lor, unlike you, watch porn but don't dare say.) but I also don't have a very sexual partner to let me indulge in on-spot actions very much. This does not mean I'm dumb cos I DO enjoy sex scenes in movies. lol
And kissing scenes. I don't know la, but there is supposed to be some chemical or hormones or whatever (don't talk to me about Science please I am now officially an Arts student) that arouse people and give us these very good feelings when we watch it.
So the world is divided into these few categories loh:
1) People who enjoy porn.
2) People who no longer enjoy porn because they can derive their own sexual pleasures physically (LOL)
3) People who are dumb (no sex drive like that Sungei Wang man who ignored my sister when she tried to flirt with him. Note that she was wearing a cleavage-revealing outfit and he did not even falter. Siao one)
4) People like me, who do not go for the hard-core but enjoy the pleasures of sex as well. ;)
But what am I trying to say? What am I trying to say is this: I don't actually think there is anything wrong with sex among couples, regardless of how long they have been together la. To me, sex is a very personal thing. Unless you are a slut, then of course you will only have sex with this guy you really, really (think you) love and trust right?
Okay please note that when I say 'have sex', I actually mean sexual activities in general and not necessarily involving the penetration of the penis into a vagina. If you flinched at my cavalier use of the words to term the female and male genitalia, then you should just close this page immediately because let's face it: you're not mature enough to handle sex la.
So back to what I'm trying to say. These days we have couples as young as 13 already. And do you think they don't kiss or make-out?
I know sexual activities cause alot of accidents such as unwanted pregnancies, emotional depression and banyak lagi la, but those young couples should be educated to be prepared to face such problems if they want to get sexually involved what right???
What we always hear people say nowadays is help educate the younger generation that sex is wrong, but then here we go establishing organisations to help the welfare of unwanted accidental babies to help clean up their mess. I know it's good for the poor innocent babies, but what does it do to educate these youngsters about pre-marital sex???
Instead of tyring to STOP these couples from having sex (which, face it la, isn't going to happen anytime soon, or ever, for that matter) why don't we start educating these people to be STRONG to handle yourself in a sexual relationship, as well as teaching them to use condoms and other birth control methods to prevent unwanted pregnancies?
In some religions of course sex is forbidden unless you're married but let's face it: how many percentage of people in this world actually give a shit about religions anymore?
I mean, I know it's good and everything, and I respect religions alot, thank you, but this is the WORLD we are talking about. Can religions really control EVERYONE and EVERYTHING they do?
So I'm not going to talk about religion. Let's assume the people I'm talking about in this whole sex post are those who do not belong to any religions.
So where was I? Yes. A different way of educating the young.
Since it is obviously futile to stop people from having sex, why don't we try to STOP the affects of sex from happening?
Like, emotional depression. Solution: include psychological education in teens's lives, teach them to be strong to face the fact that you have had sex. And also, if you are afraid, why did you do it in the first place? And if you feel guilty, then don't, because, okay la this is MY opinion, it is pleasurable what. What do we look for in this life anyway?: Pleasure. There you go. Some more if it doesn't bring about any bad affects, why not?
Okay so you say bad affects are unwanted pregnancies. Solution: Educate them to use condoms. Educate them to ejaculate outside the vagina. Teach them to use a diaphragm.
STDs? Solution: Combination of both psychological education and birth control methods. If you think your partner has STD, then don't la have sex with him kan. And also, know how to protect yourself if you are in doubt. Always remember, your safety is above all. PLAY SAFE.
And please note that through this blog post I am NOT encouraging sex, and OBVIOUSLY when I say HAVE SEX, it does not mean with multiple partners okay. I mean sex with and ONLY with the person you trust and love. So can cancel out on STDs. (because I am sure that the person you trust and love does not have STDs right???? If it's otherwise then... I got nothing to say)
I just don't know what the big deal is with sexual relationships with the person you love. It is a process of life after all what. Just make sure the people are able to carry themselves after that then all's well isn't it?
Instead of cleaning up the mess (eg: organisations set-up to adopt unwanted babies; which I think will encourage MORE unwanted pregnancies to happen, because these reckless couples know that after they give birth, they can just put their child up for adoption and won't have to resort to murder), we should really start finding ways to PREVENT this mess from happening in the first place.
It is impossible to stop people from having sex anyway, so the best solution is to educate them to be emotionally strong and mature and to have safe sex la.
It sounds really wrong in this society to say such things, and religiously opposing to alot of people, but this is just MY OPINION la. I'm not actively involved in any religion, so I'm just speaking this as a human being in general.
And I know you can't help but to agree with what I say also right?
I mean, it's just sex with the person you love. What's the big deal?
Now don't come and tell me what if the person you love is only actually someone you 'THINK you love?', 'Wouldn't you have wasted your allowance for him to have sexual activities with you?' and all those crap la because I can't control it if your mind thinks you love this person and delude you to think that he is your true love right? It all depends on YOUR CHOICE anyway, and whether or not you are strong enough to face the consequences that come along with it.
And I can personally say that I am strong enough, so if you aren't, then too bad la. The world is a big pot of different opinions. And these are just mine.
Chuz.
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