hi..wasnt quite sure bout wat happened actually.u know i duwan kepo laa..if u rly wanna tell me i can listen.but no ..then fine also..no forcing..
wat i think is that this is the ups and downs of life.sometimes u came to a state of confusion bout wat u have done wrong.
my advice is divided into two ways.
choose either wan la if u wanna listen.
first,to ignore it la.wat i mean is that somehow this is how human can become.sometimes its not ur fault at all.but u were dislike.its completely not ur fault(althot i dunno if u have done wrong).but it just that teenagers are abit sensitive and can change easily.we find it easy to just break a friendship.wat i meant by ignoring it is just let it be la.change ur seat if u want to.but the real meaning is when u ignore it and then try to talk to her slowly back la.she might not show any interest at the first time.that's normal.gotta just try more and control ur emotions more.after like let's say 1 year,she will forget about everything.try to make her special back.just forget bout wat happened.for eg,still celebrate her birthday for her.pretending like nothing happen.and sometimes if possible she might come back one day and explain every thing bout her stupidity. i would recommend that la.nothing comes easy.and it requires a lot of courage to do that.and a lot of patience.see if u rly appreciate that frenship.if u rly r,then y not?
second,of coz the cruel way and the one that u might end up regret one day is just let it go la.like wat he said,u have done ur part.but i dun rly recommend that.like wat i said.mayb shes just having bad time with her family that shes becoming more skeptical about everything beside her.so of coz its out of ur control.so the best is just continue it.it might not change overnite but have patience!
seriously i will prefer that u take my first advise.the one to let it go its ok laa..(i duwan to critisise bout other's opinions..but i felt that its not worth it.u might regret it.)
remmeber..try to make her special back.day by day.pretending like nothing happen.i am sure shes just having bad time and start to b skeptical of everything around her.so dun feel so bad.be patient and make her special back.like still celebrate her bday.yadda yadda yadda
thanks. (: i would really love to 'act normal'. but i am scared people will think that I am fake. but what do they know?: they always mistake my choice to 'act nomral' as being fake. so what should i do? purposely dowan to talk to them? that one lagi fake because i want to save the friendship, takkan i go and fight with them some more!
next time i tell u the story la. it's too long to explain in writing. ):
i also really dont know what i have done wrong. serious. if i know, takkan i still PURPOSELY go and do it mer? I am not that kind of person la. i tot my friends would understand me. turns out i am wrong.
i think i need time ot think about this. I need to see what happns later, so that i will know what i should do. if she wants to pretend that everything is alrght, i will also pretend to forget about everything. if she wants to avoid me, then it's ok. i will not disturb her.
i have done my part. and i will wait for her to do hers.
maybe nobody is wrong in this problem. just a misunderstanding. i hope.
naaah..dun mistaken those two.the two vast diff between faking something and IGNORING IS faking is fake la of coz.but ignoring it means to take things lightly.to take her jeer to u or wtv to u lightly.note that i nvr use the word fake urself in my advice.so ....wat i meant is like taking things lightly.it means for eg,she might be rude to u back these few days.but take it lightly and pretend everything's alrite.thats not pretending.thats just happy-go-lucky.hahaha.
well up 2 u.since u wanna find out wat happened then slowly do it.nvr rush.
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hi..wasnt quite sure bout wat happened actually.u know i duwan kepo laa..if u rly wanna tell me i can listen.but no ..then fine also..no forcing..
wat i think is that this is the ups and downs of life.sometimes u came to a state of confusion bout wat u have done wrong.
my advice is divided into two ways.
choose either wan la if u wanna listen.
first,to ignore it la.wat i mean is that somehow this is how human can become.sometimes its not ur fault at all.but u were dislike.its completely not ur fault(althot i dunno if u have done wrong).but it just that teenagers are abit sensitive and can change easily.we find it easy to just break a friendship.wat i meant by ignoring it is just let it be la.change ur seat if u want to.but the real meaning is when u ignore it and then try to talk to her slowly back la.she might not show any interest at the first time.that's normal.gotta just try more and control ur emotions more.after like let's say 1 year,she will forget about everything.try to make her special back.just forget bout wat happened.for eg,still celebrate her birthday for her.pretending like nothing happen.and sometimes if possible she might come back one day and explain every thing bout her stupidity.
i would recommend that la.nothing comes easy.and it requires a lot of courage to do that.and a lot of patience.see if u rly appreciate that frenship.if u rly r,then y not?
second,of coz the cruel way and the one that u might end up regret one day is just let it go la.like wat he said,u have done ur part.but i dun rly recommend that.like wat i said.mayb shes just having bad time with her family that shes becoming more skeptical about everything beside her.so of coz its out of ur control.so the best is just continue it.it might not change overnite but have patience!
seriously i will prefer that u take my first advise.the one to let it go its ok laa..(i duwan to critisise bout other's opinions..but i felt that its not worth it.u might regret it.)
its still up 2 u 2 decide.just gifing opinion
remmeber..try to make her special back.day by day.pretending like nothing happen.i am sure shes just having bad time and start to b skeptical of everything around her.so dun feel so bad.be patient and make her special back.like still celebrate her bday.yadda yadda yadda
hitori,
thanks. (: i would really love to 'act normal'. but i am scared people will think that I am fake. but what do they know?: they always mistake my choice to 'act nomral' as being fake. so what should i do? purposely dowan to talk to them? that one lagi fake because i want to save the friendship, takkan i go and fight with them some more!
next time i tell u the story la. it's too long to explain in writing. ):
i also really dont know what i have done wrong. serious. if i know, takkan i still PURPOSELY go and do it mer? I am not that kind of person la. i tot my friends would understand me. turns out i am wrong.
i think i need time ot think about this. I need to see what happns later, so that i will know what i should do. if she wants to pretend that everything is alrght, i will also pretend to forget about everything. if she wants to avoid me, then it's ok. i will not disturb her.
i have done my part. and i will wait for her to do hers.
maybe nobody is wrong in this problem. just a misunderstanding. i hope.
naaah..dun mistaken those two.the two vast diff between faking something and IGNORING IS faking is fake la of coz.but ignoring it means to take things lightly.to take her jeer to u or wtv to u lightly.note that i nvr use the word fake urself in my advice.so ....wat i meant is like taking things lightly.it means for eg,she might be rude to u back these few days.but take it lightly and pretend everything's alrite.thats not pretending.thats just happy-go-lucky.hahaha.
well up 2 u.since u wanna find out wat happened then slowly do it.nvr rush.
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